Read 1 Peter 3: 8-18 here
Two parts of this passage really jumped off the page as i read this passage this morning. The first is verses 8 and 9: “Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. “
In our society there is a lot of talk about compassion, particularly at the moment. What we seem to have taken it to mean currently is that we take a view as to what the best kind of life we can imagine for ourselves and one another, and seek that for others, politically, economically, ethically, morally and so on. This is, in a sense, empathetic, but it could also be borne out of fear of difference. We far a narrative that we’re all supposed to be equal or the same, but we can only be so in the eyes of God. Our society, in this age, is not built, does not wish and will not allow, actual Kingdom equality to take place. So, instead, how are we to be compassionate? I think verses 17 and 18 at the end of this passage might hold something of the answer:
For it is better, if it is God’s will, to suffer for doing good than for doing evil. For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit.
Annoyingly for us who don’t ever want to suffer or to see suffering, it is a part of life. We can go round and round the mulberry bush about whether God causes, allows, abhors or even ignores our suffering. Everyone has a different perspective. In a sense though, in spite of the narrative at play in our culture at the moment I’m not sure it matters who is the agent causing the suffering. Here, Peter is saying that, if we follow God’s way, and (unsurprisingly) suffer in whatever sense, it is better to do so for doing good. So, returning to my earlier question, I believe compassion in our culture is to unstintingly and unfailingly seek to do good, good not in the eyes of culture or society, but good in the light of the life, death, resurrection and love of Jesus Christ. He suffered for us, not so that we don’t have to, but so that the final victory of peace, joy, hope and love is won for all. We are not showing true compassion to anyone, in any sense, in my view, unless something of how we are and how we live points them to the life and love of Jesus Christ. Don’t misunderstand me though, good works are crucial in all of our lives, and we are, it seems to me, regularly given opportunities to undertake them. The point I think Peter is driving at this morning though is that good works alone are not enough, everyone can do those. Let’s find ways to be known as people of love, grace and compassion today.